Comments on: Coping with Guilt http://personalgrowthmap.com/blog/2008/12/24/coping-with-guilt/ Holistic Growth through Balanced Living Tue, 06 Sep 2011 05:57:37 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Haider http://personalgrowthmap.com/blog/2008/12/24/coping-with-guilt/comment-page-1/#comment-51 Haider Wed, 31 Dec 2008 18:18:18 +0000 http://personalgrowthmap.com/?p=132#comment-51 Well, I wouldn't say you HAVE to err in order to grow. When it comes to raising children we are responsible for researching how best to raise them *before* we have them! But if it's in the past, your perspective should change, because you can no longer do anything to turn back time. Making mistakes is natural, given the fact that our knowledge and abilities aren't perfect, but we shouldn't dismiss the opportunity to avoid these mistakes in the first place. Well, I wouldn’t say you HAVE to err in order to grow. When it comes to raising children we are responsible for researching how best to raise them *before* we have them!

But if it’s in the past, your perspective should change, because you can no longer do anything to turn back time.

Making mistakes is natural, given the fact that our knowledge and abilities aren’t perfect, but we shouldn’t dismiss the opportunity to avoid these mistakes in the first place.

]]> By: Eaman http://personalgrowthmap.com/blog/2008/12/24/coping-with-guilt/comment-page-1/#comment-42 Eaman Wed, 31 Dec 2008 01:07:23 +0000 http://personalgrowthmap.com/?p=132#comment-42 Sub7an Allah this was our subject 2day (talking with some1). That when we raise our children, we do it based on what we know at that time. If it turned 2 b wrong, we don't blame ourselves. We need 2 err in order 2 grow. I don't know how 2 say this in English: inna Allah yu7ib al tawwabeen. Tawbah comes after doing any guilt. As if God is saying that guilt is in our nature. But U need 2 refrain from it of course, and if U did, God loves U ( : Sub7an Allah this was our subject 2day (talking with some1). That when we raise our children, we do it based on what we know at that time. If it turned 2 b wrong, we don’t blame ourselves. We need 2 err in order 2 grow. I don’t know how 2 say this in English: inna Allah yu7ib al tawwabeen. Tawbah comes after doing any guilt. As if God is saying that guilt is in our nature. But U need 2 refrain from it of course, and if U did, God loves U ( :

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