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	<title>Comments on: Negative Emotions are Healthy</title>
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		<title>By: Haider</title>
		<link>http://personalgrowthmap.com/blog/2009/03/30/negative-emotions-are-healthy/comment-page-1/#comment-305</link>
		<dc:creator>Haider</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 05:52:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Alistair,

I definitely agree with you on that one. And it&#039;s also important to accept that sorrow can sometimes be the most suitable response to a situation. Negative emotions are only bad when they&#039;re not appropriate and in good measure. That&#039;s when they begin working against us instead of for us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Alistair,</p>
<p>I definitely agree with you on that one. And it&#8217;s also important to accept that sorrow can sometimes be the most suitable response to a situation. Negative emotions are only bad when they&#8217;re not appropriate and in good measure. That&#8217;s when they begin working against us instead of for us.</p>
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		<title>By: Alistair</title>
		<link>http://personalgrowthmap.com/blog/2009/03/30/negative-emotions-are-healthy/comment-page-1/#comment-301</link>
		<dc:creator>Alistair</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 12:56:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I remember hearing a long time ago, something to the effect &#039;there is no joy without sorrow&#039;. While I don&#039;t wish sorrow on anyone, bad feelings &amp; experiences help you to appreciate the good feelings and experiences all the more, and to appreciate their true value.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remember hearing a long time ago, something to the effect &#8216;there is no joy without sorrow&#8217;. While I don&#8217;t wish sorrow on anyone, bad feelings &amp; experiences help you to appreciate the good feelings and experiences all the more, and to appreciate their true value.</p>
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		<title>By: Haider</title>
		<link>http://personalgrowthmap.com/blog/2009/03/30/negative-emotions-are-healthy/comment-page-1/#comment-237</link>
		<dc:creator>Haider</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 22:27:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Tom,

People who are mentally healthy can still experience negativity. It&#039;s part of their mental health. But they would only use the negativity to recognize the things in their life that need their attention. At times, you can experience negativity simply because there&#039;s a question you need to pose to yourself and find an answer for. That&#039;s what the negativity is trying to tell you.

Where negativity becomes a problem is when you dwell on it, or when it becomes the focus. It&#039;s the &quot;mistaking the sign-post for the destination&quot; problem.

I wish you all the best, and hope you&#039;ll find more posts useful. :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Tom,</p>
<p>People who are mentally healthy can still experience negativity. It&#8217;s part of their mental health. But they would only use the negativity to recognize the things in their life that need their attention. At times, you can experience negativity simply because there&#8217;s a question you need to pose to yourself and find an answer for. That&#8217;s what the negativity is trying to tell you.</p>
<p>Where negativity becomes a problem is when you dwell on it, or when it becomes the focus. It&#8217;s the &#8220;mistaking the sign-post for the destination&#8221; problem.</p>
<p>I wish you all the best, and hope you&#8217;ll find more posts useful. <img src='http://personalgrowthmap.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Tom Maurer</title>
		<link>http://personalgrowthmap.com/blog/2009/03/30/negative-emotions-are-healthy/comment-page-1/#comment-234</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom Maurer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 00:53:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haider,

Great post, I couldn&#039;t agree more.

Its comforting to know when we are in a bad spot that if we look for the lesson in the negativity we are experiencing then we will grow and the negativity will pass.

I&#039;d love to be in a position where I was so mentally healthy that I didn&#039;t emit any negativity. But of course I&#039;m not. I experience negativity all the time but you are right, the way to move forward isn&#039;t to bury it but to embrace it and learn from it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haider,</p>
<p>Great post, I couldn&#8217;t agree more.</p>
<p>Its comforting to know when we are in a bad spot that if we look for the lesson in the negativity we are experiencing then we will grow and the negativity will pass.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love to be in a position where I was so mentally healthy that I didn&#8217;t emit any negativity. But of course I&#8217;m not. I experience negativity all the time but you are right, the way to move forward isn&#8217;t to bury it but to embrace it and learn from it.</p>
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		<title>By: Haider</title>
		<link>http://personalgrowthmap.com/blog/2009/03/30/negative-emotions-are-healthy/comment-page-1/#comment-225</link>
		<dc:creator>Haider</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 12:19:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, I&#039;m in a very popular niche, but this is one of the problems I find. A lot of the advice being presented isn&#039;t contributing to our growth, but inhibiting it. 

The ebook covers what personal growth is really about and why we&#039;re not getting the results we want from the literature we&#039;ve been reading...

I&#039;ll definitely keep you posted, and I&#039;ll appreciate any feedback you can give. :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, I&#8217;m in a very popular niche, but this is one of the problems I find. A lot of the advice being presented isn&#8217;t contributing to our growth, but inhibiting it. </p>
<p>The ebook covers what personal growth is really about and why we&#8217;re not getting the results we want from the literature we&#8217;ve been reading&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll definitely keep you posted, and I&#8217;ll appreciate any feedback you can give. <img src='http://personalgrowthmap.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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